Tuesday, June 28, 2011

Internship session~ alhamdulillah :)

Hye guys, another entry for tonight, actually this is the 3rd one lah, tetiba hari ini bermood semacam je nak update blog. Dont know what's happening with me, mungkin sebab bosan, nak study tapi tak dapat, sebab bosan, nah! logik la sangatkan reason tu, xbole diterima pakai langsung lah >.<

Pape pon enough dengan mengarut tu, for this entry I would like to talk about my internship session that will start on 3 October - 20 April of next year. Honestly speaking la kan, memang tak sabarlah nak berinternship since i've got a very good place la for my internship, thanks to Allah, rezeki Nya :) and i am very excited la. Actually i got Emerson and if you guys don't know Emerson, bole la klik this link :')

Actually never thought that i will get Emerson for my internship since i don't perform well lah, dean' list tu last one i got during my secondary school lah , tapi itulah orang cakap, tuah manusia dan juga rezeki masing masing. Tuhan tu adil, kita kurang kat situ, kita lebih kat sini, innit? jangan pernah tak percaya dengan Nya :) Act w/ my result yang memang ala kadar tu, I got 4 offers for my intership session, yet there are many of us still didnt get even one. Memang sangatlah bersyukur dengan nikmatNya. And to make it more dramatic lah kan, all offers that i got, semua memenuhi kehendak lah as Chemical Engineering student. I got Pasir Gudang,and will be placed at plant, i got P.Pinang, one at ceramics, and another one for chemicals, which is dealing with acid thingy, semua berkaitan dengan Chemical lah :') and for Emerson, i will assist process engineer, cool meh? :D

Before applying for internship session nie, lots lots of senior told us, it's hard to find intership lah, plus if you want to get what u want, it's like 30% out of 100% lah, u can see how difficult it is. Detik nak apply internship tu, i was like" sape la nak amek aku nie, dah la tak perform , but deep in my heart, tak pe, rezeki ada kat mane mane lah, dont worry too much la" . I never expect lah to get something like this, cause i know my limitation, and that's why i was like, the hell i got Emerson, and feeling like pass-out lah bila dapat call tu, telling u i never hoping for it, sebab Emerson is big la for me yang tak perform nie. Tapi tu lah, again rezeki manusia, hanya Dia yang tahu :)

All my life, i believed yang rezeki memang ada kat mane mane, and i keep telling myself la Allah tu maha adil, kita kurang kat situ, dia bagi lebih kat sini. Guys if you are sad about things that you didn't have while your friend have it, bear in your mind, what do you have that ur friend dont have, then you know how to be bersyukurlah. Honestly speaking, sometimes me myself kadang kadang feeling iri hati lah w/ my friends, dah la kaya, bijak pandai, tapi tu la, they dont have what i got. Renungkan balik, that's why when someone saying dunia ni tak adil, i kind of didnt agree w/ them, for me dunia nie adil, the actors who acted on this earth yang tidak adil. Dont blame the world lah, blame the actors. And Tuhan tu adil, percaya dengan rezekiNya :) then you will be very happy :) and i should do more for Allah since im not a good servant on earth. Setiap pemberian ada rahmatnye :) pandai pandailah and dont take it for granted okay :)


p/s: kite manusia memang tidak dapat menghitung nikmatNya, tidak layak untuk tangisi musibah yang menimpa, lihatlah apa yang dihadapan, jangan dia tangisi yang bukan milik :)

Monday, June 27, 2011

Tips: Face Saving, itulah orang melayu.

face-saving ;)

Assalamualaikum

Hari ni bukan nak mengarut atau nak mendongeng pasal diri sendiri, hari ni nak bercerita pasal face-saving we Malaysian selalu buat, before that, do you know what face-saving is? Face saving (or saving face) refers to maintaining a good self image. People who are involved in a conflict and secretly know they are wrong will often not admit that they are wrong because they don’t want to admit they made a mistake. They therefore continue the conflict, just to avoid the embarrassment of looking bad. If you guys dont get it, hurm macam ni la kiranya face-saving, perhatikan dialog dibawah:

si A: "eh bole tak ak nak pinjam kereta ko hari nie?"
si B: berfikir sejenak, eh berjenak jenak jugak la, pastu menjawab " erk, aku ada keje la kejap lagi"
si A: "owh kalau macam tu xpa la ye, thanks taw"

lalu si A pon berlalu pegi dengan perasaan hampa lagi sebak lah, xdapat merewang, si B lak bermonolog, "fuh lega, leceh la nak bagi pinjam kete kat orang laen nie"

So guys, you got the message? kalau tak dapat jugak, then it's not my fault lah, since I've clearly stated the situation above. Actually talking about face saving nie, its kinda of you are avoiding something and at the same time cuba mahu menjaga air muka masing masing lah. Itulah melayu atau pon Malaysia, itulah budaya kita dan kita di didik macam tu la. For those who still don't understand it, I give u another example la eh;

Gadis A : "happy birthday , ni I hadiahkan u hadiah yang tak seberapa nie "
Gadis B : "terima kasih"

lalu bercakap lah mereka, tanpa gadis B membuka hadiah tersebut, dalam kes ni, gadis B cube menjaga air muka gadis A, khuatir hadiah yang dibuka tu tidak memenuhi kehendak, maka decided not to open the present in front of her friend la, takut terpancar wajah ketidak puasan hati kerana dapat hadiah yang tak seberapa tu, as u can see, the first dialog is all about jaga air muka sendiri, for the second situation, jaga air muka kawan .

Face-saving ni adalah baik kadang kala nye, but for certain situation tu it is not necessarily la tu apply face saving nie, as we can see lah kan, most western culture, they didn't apply face-saving thingy nie, example when they are in classroom, when teacher is saying something wrong about the topic, the student dengan tidak malunya akan interrupt the session and correct the teacher la, but in Malaysia, we are not allowed to do that, u can see the different ? because we Malaysia, tend to think it's a rude thing to be done lah kan, but for them it's norm la since it's for the betterment la katakan. We were told that the country who's having very high degree of face -saving adalah Thailand. We don't know in details about it, but we believed it that way la since we were told by senior lecturer, he surely did his study well la kan, if not he wont be saying like that.

However we can find some cases dimana Malaysian tak mengamalkan face-saving nie, seperti when we lepak with our bestfriend la kan, we tend to tell them that there's something wrong in their faces, that's because relationship that we are having tu, xmembataskan cara pergaulan kita. Sebab dah terlalu rapat, we dont mind about jaga air muka lah dengan mereka. Haa begitulah gamaknye.

So, that's all for now kot, and sudah semestinye la me myself pon ber-face-saving jugak kadang kadang, air muka mesti mau jaga maaaa, innit?

p/s: don't be shocked if you go to oversea, diorang maen hentam atas muka, sebab diorang memang xkisah la about face-saving thingy ni :)

Sunday, June 26, 2011

A lesson :D

lesson in life: a wise man sat in the audience and cracked a joke, everybody laughh like crazy, after a moment, he cracked the same joke again, this time less people laughed. He cracked the same joke again n again, when there's no laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said " u cant laugh at the same joke again n again, but why keep crying over the same thing over and over again?" .

Sunday, June 19, 2011

Space bound

We touch I feel a rush
We clutch it isnt much
But its enough to make me wonder whats in store for us
It's lust its torcherous
You must be a socerous cause you just
Did the impossible
Gained my trust dont play games itll be dangerous
If you fuck me over
Cause if I get burnt imma show you what its like to hurt
Cause I been treated like dirt before ya
And love is evil
Spell it backwards ill show ya
Nobody knows me im cold
Walk down this road all alone
Its noones fault but my own
Its the path ive chosen to go
Frozen as snow I show no emotion whatsoever so
Don't ask me why I have no love for these mufuckin hos
Bloodsuckin' suckubusses what the fuck is up with this
Ive tried in this department but I aint had no luck with this
Its sucks but its exactly what I thought it would be
Like tryin to start over
I gotta hole in my heart im some kind of emotional roller-coaster
Somethin I wont go on til you toy with my emotion so its over
Its like an explosion everytime I hold ya wasnt jokin when I told ya
Ya take my breathe away
Your a supernova.. and im a
I'm a space bound rocket ship and your heart's to the moon
And I'm aiming right at you
Right at you
250, 000 miles on a clear night in June
And I aim it right at you
Right at you
Right at you
I do whatever it takes
When im with you I get the shakes
My body aikes when I aint
With you I have zero strength
Theres no limit on how far I would go
No boundries no lengths
Why do we say that until we get that person that we thinks
Gonna be that one and then once we get em its never the same
You want them when they dont want you
Soon as they do feelings change
Its not a contest and I aint on no conquest for no mate
I wasnt lookin but I stumbled onto you mustve been fate
But so much is at stake what the fuck does it take
Lets cut to the chase
But a door shuts in your face
Promise me if I cave in and break and leave myself open
That I wont be makin a mistake
I'm a space bound rocket ship and your heart's to the moon
And I'm aiming right at you
Right at you
250, 000 miles on a clear night in June
And I aim it right at you
Right at you
Right at you
So after a year and 6 months its no longer me that you want
But I love you so much it hurts
Never mistreated you once
I poured my heart out to you
Let down my guard swear to god
I'll blow my brains in your lap
Lay here and die in your arms
Up to my knees and im bleedin
I'm tryin to stop you from leavin
You wont even listen so fuck it
I'm tryin to stop you from breathin
I put both hands on your throat
I sit on top of you squeezin
Till I snap ya neck like a popsicle stick
Aint no possible reason I could think of
To let you walk up out this house and let you live
Tears streamed down both of my cheeks
Then I let you just go and just give
And before I put that gun to my temple
I told you this:
And I would do anything for you
To show you how much I adored you
But its over now
Its too late to save our love
Just promise me youll think of me everytime you look up in the sky and see a star cause imma
I'm a space bound rocket ship and your heart's to the moon
And I'm aiming right at you
Right at you
250 thousand miles on a clear night in June
And im so lost without you
So lost without you
Without you
Without you

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Tips: Culture Change

Assalamualaikum

Lame sangat dah tak update blog nie, busy je this few weeks, dengan National Intership Challenge, dengan event Jom Makan Weyh and segalanya la. Btw update hari ni bukan nak mengadu domba dan menjadikan blog makhluk yang tidak bole berkata kata ni sebagai mangsa, hari ni nak bercerita sedikit pasal culture kita dia malaysia (wah, memang baguslah amek subject ni this sem) bole gak share sedikit sebanyak ilmu kat blog yang memang ntah ape ape nie =.='

Okay back to the main topic, have you heard about cultural change? for those who has not heard about it before, cultural change ini adalah semacam perubahan culture that happens due to a lot of reason of course, few of them are diffusion of culture, globalization, and travelling of mankind all over the world. Basically there are a lot of differences between mankind all over the world. Before taking this course, I never knew that even the way we sleep is influence by culture and of course I am sure that you guys never realized it too, innit? For example, we Malaysian people wont go to sleep with at least 5 pillow on bed, and Japanese people, even with piece of wood, they will have a soundless sleep. See, that's how culture had influenced us. I believe most of Malaysia will nod their head reading this la. (bajet je kan )

Plus they way we eat rice also is influenced by our Malay culture. As what my lecturer said before, 99 % of Chinese will have nose or throat cancer, this is due to their culture which is eating rice when it is still hot by using chopstick. Malaysian wont do that because they will eat using their hand which they will wait for the nasi panas to be cooled first by blowing ( i dont know what is the exact word la for tiup nasi when it is still hot) the nasi panas. This will eventually prevent them from having nose or throat cancer. See how it works dude?

Besides, they way we speak is influence by culture too. We were told that Malaysian have a low touch culture, low touch means when u meet someone else, either you friend or you relatives, the thing that you will do or cross your mind first is, to shake hand, innit? that's what we called low touch culture, by right it means the degree of touching between them is low.Meanwhile, the country that have high touch culture is Egypt, and many more that have the habit, when they meet their friends or relatives, they will hug each other and kiss perhaps. And the country that have very low touch culture is Japanese. They don't even want to touch you when meeting with you, they will just nod their head showing respect. That's how it works to them. This thing goes on till the end of world.

Culture change also diffuse through globalization. Years ago, when I were a kid, I used to play with mud and clay, playing with lompat tali *we called them, dont know their exact name* we play patung kertas, we played power rangers among us, we play games called *lawan pemadam*, we buy dendang, tora and all that stuff la. Nowadays because of culture change, kids today will played PSP, PS2, PS3, Xbox and all those thing. This is due to globalization through out the world. Even power rangers series is changed b'cos of globalization. Can u imagine what will happen next 50 years, 100 years? Sometimes i do see globalization will make good to the world, and sometimes i dont think so. Globalization has it's positive and negative effects. Depends on how people accept it and use it. Fuh~

You guys have to learned this subject. We will know how to behave and not to behave when we are in different country and different ethnic. Maybe they way we are practicing in our country such as how we speaks, is interpret as a rude way of talking in other country, we wont know it until we study about their culture. That's how important culture to us. Enough for now la.

p/s: kepada anak anak zaman moden, korang memang xda life la, asyik ngadap psp je keje :P